tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-77565987485864102412024-03-13T04:26:34.091-07:00i must be off my rockerC.A. Morganhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508290473094312942noreply@blogger.comBlogger94125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7756598748586410241.post-69008115431878477672014-11-14T08:18:00.000-08:002014-11-14T08:18:52.314-08:00You're cured!Not that I was ever really sick, but this overwhelmed <strong>Momster</strong> definitely had need of blog therapy for a few years! And that's exactly what "<strong>imustbeoffmyrocker</strong>" provided.<br />
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Writing (and ranting!) to my computer keyboard was possibly the most positive step I could've taken at a time when, in the throes of motherhood, it seemed I had misplaced an important part of myself. The need to vent, to "think out loud" has always been crucial to my sanity. When voices stay locked inside my head, they start to bounce of the walls of my skull, spinning into a never-ending vortex that sucks attention, time, happiness, energy, etc.... you name it. But constantly ragging and nagging the family can bring them down too. "Millstone" is not who I wanted to be. <br />
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Time out to reflect on the joy of parenting helped me to see it more clearly.<br />
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So thanks, <strong>Momster</strong>, for being my alter ego/therapist for the last several years. I'm not saying you're a miracle worker or anything, but I am feeling a lot more like myself again. And though I may check in for a booster shot occasionally, for now....<br />
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The hills are so gloriously, riotously colorful right now that even the most jaded, non-nature loving, blinder-wearing driver can't keep their eyes off of them. While we Northeast Kingdom folk love sharing all that beauty, we love it even more when peepers pull over to soak it all in. And by pull over, we mean consciously, and not in a sensory overloaded daze! <br />
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Sure, we're used to it. But even so, this year is turning out to be especially spectacular. The display of color along the ridge on a sunny afternoon, or single crimson tree appearing suddenly out of the early morning valley fog has taken my breath away more than once this fall. Add to that the big bull moose that walked through the yard the other day, and the tang of fresh cider in the air, and you've got Vermont heaven.<br />
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But<strong> Bonus Baby</strong> isn't impressed. She's waiting rather impatiently for her favorite fall ritual - jumping into piles of raked up leaves.<br />
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The rustle and crunch of crisp brown clouds punctured by sneakered feet, armfuls of <strong>Critter</strong>-made storms raining down upon her. The earthy musk of composting foliage rubbed into clothes and hair (with spider sprinkles - shhhhh!). The promise of pumpkins to carve and sweet treats to beg for - that's her idea of heaven. Can't say I'm anxious to accommodate her. Given my druthers, I'd take two more months of exactly how it is right now. But soon enough the trees will perform their slow striptease (or frenzied disrobing depending on wind and rain), the vibrant hues will fade, and the gray winter skies will leave me longing for color. <br />
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Which, I guess, is just as good.C.A. Morganhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508290473094312942noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7756598748586410241.post-91524394577004686502014-06-06T05:07:00.000-07:002014-06-06T05:07:06.071-07:00A Death in the FamilyIt was inevitable. No matter how much we may fight it or try to deny the fact, death happens. And this week it hit home.<br />
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She was a matriarch of sorts, our first family pet, picked out by <strong>Firstborn </strong>on her seventh birthday from a litter of fluffy, mewling kitties. Chosen for her sass. She was the one that wouldn't stay put in her comfy basement enclosure, the one that always escaped to roam upstairs where she wasn't allowed. Her first owners were glad to see the "unruly" one go.<br />
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Once home, it wasn't hard to name her - simple enough for a first grader. When she curled up on the hearth near the wood stove, her mottled gray fur could easily have been mistaken for a pile of ashes. So, <strong>Ashes</strong> it was. <br />
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We loved her feisty, somewhat aloof attitude, at least... most of us did. <strong>Husband</strong> accepted her presence in his home because he is a generous man. <strong>Third Child</strong> was a little afraid of her, and <strong>Sweetie Petite-y</strong> was allergic, although we didn't figure that out until several years later. By then, it was too late. She was part of the family.<br />
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She was a full grown three year old when <strong>Only Son</strong> picked out her adopted "little" sister, <strong>Fudge</strong>, a labshepweiller mutt puppy three times her size, who grew to ten times bigger. (Side note: <strong>Fudge</strong> resembles her name as much as <strong>Ashes</strong> did hers, though left up to me, I'd have called her Bliss.) A pecking order was established, and <strong>Ashes</strong> came out as Top Dog. She tolerated the interloper, but barely, and never played with her despite <strong>Fudge</strong>'s enthusiastic attempts. The canine water bowl was deemed drinkable only after it served as feline bath water, delicately applied by paw, and <strong>Fudge</strong> waited patiently for <strong>Ashes</strong>' daily ritual like, well, a dog waiting for table scraps. <br />
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Years passed. For a few months, a stray calico kitten shared our home and <strong>Ashes</strong>' food dish - <em>our </em>affection, though not hers. But <strong>Callie</strong> disappeared one day as quickly as she came. Another adopted stray was <strong>Third Child</strong>'s best ever Christmas present, but sadly, <strong>Tiger</strong> possessed the same wanderlust, and was gone within a year. <br />
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<strong>Ashes</strong> never wandered. Even though she spent summer nights prowling the yard and woods that surround our house - decapitating rabbits, nabbing bats mid-flight, and ridding the mountainside of field mice. And no, we never suspected her of foul play where the other cats were concerned! But over the years our fearless <strong>FirstPet</strong> did get into a few minor(?) scrapes. An occasional scratch on her nose, a small tear in her ear, and a scab on the back of her neck that she reopened time and time again attested to the fact that she could take care of herself. With each dawn she'd meow- she was a very vocal kitty! - till I let her in off the deck or opened the basement door. She'd then proceed to regale me with her nightly escapades, which I'm guessing included more than one rebuffed lover, and possibly an occasional fisher or coyote. Since she was much smaller than she looked under all of that fur, she was hard to catch. But she was always there in the morning with presents for her family, ready to find a sunbeam for a catnap.<br />
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Once the cause of <strong>Sweetie Petite-y</strong>'s eczema was partially pinned on her, <strong>Ashes</strong> was relegated to either the outdoors or basement at night, weather depending, and the younger girls room was deemed off limits at all times. About a year ago, <strong>Hubby </strong>finally installed a screen door over their bedroom door so that there could still be air flow with no hair flow. Both <strong>Sweetie Petite-y</strong> and I had a love/hate relationship with the cat by that point. All of that irresistible, soft gray fur begging to be stroked was like living with an addiction.<br />
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She was never a playful kitty, but there was one thing she couldn't resist - our reusable plastic advent wreath. From the moment it was set out her tail was a-quiver with excitement. One by one, she'd steal the sparkly boughs from it and bat them around till they disappeared under stove or fridge. Eventually, I took to hanging it (sans candles) from a hook on the deck door, and she would sit below, eyeing it with such longing that, each year, I would have to break off at least one bough to give her, just because.<br />
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Earlier this spring we got our first indication that <strong>Ashes</strong> would not be immortal. At first, she just seemed a little off. Then we noticed that her pupils were different sizes and she began to have some issues with balance. <strong>Firstborn</strong> was away at college when <strong>Ashes</strong> had the full blown stroke that left her hindquarters immobilized. It was finals and theater tech-week, and I was afraid that if I told <strong>Firstborn</strong> she'd be a wreck. So, even though it seemed wrong to keep it from her, I did, hoping that by some miracle the cat would pull through. <br />
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For over a month after that <strong>Ashes</strong> appeared normal. Her ordeal had left her a little thinner and slower than usual, but she was eating and acting like herself again. And then suddenly, she wasn't. She went off her food first, even turning down the tuna juice that was her favorite. I noticed right away, and eventually <strong>Firstborn</strong> did too. Then, she stopped drinking very much, moved very little, and took to hiding in secluded corners. I suspected the end was near. For a day or two we debated taking her to the vet, but decided not to traumatize her; she had always hated the car, the cat carrier, and the vet's office even more. Out of compassion, we decided to let her passing be natural. It was difficult to watch her waste away, even though she didn't appear to be in any pain. I took to singing to her softly while gently stroking her, missing the times I could have done so and hadn't. She tolerated it, even purring, though sometimes I could sense she just wanted to be left alone. She seemed so frail.<br />
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The morning of her passing she wanted to be outside. Rain was coming, and I had to leave for work, so I didn't want to let her out. But I did. I watched as she slowly, stoically stepped through the doorway to the stone porch, resting just outside the door. I scratched behind her ears, whispered goodbye and drove away. <strong>Firstborn</strong>, fighting the urge to put her back inside, did the same as she left the house a while later, both of us somehow knowing.....<br />
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When I got home from work after picking up the <strong>Critters</strong> from school, she was gone. I searched the house, not knowing if she'd been put back inside, and failing to find her, looked around outside. It had rained during the day, and the darkening sky portended another approaching thunderstorm. If she was still alive, I didn't want her left out in it. But she wasn't. I finally found her under our mudroom, just beyond the opening in the stone foundation and lying on some lumber we store there.<br />
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<strong>Only Son</strong> helped me retrieve her body, carefully lifting out the boards till he could get to her with both hands, wanting to retain her dignity in death. His lighthearted comments as he worked belied the catch in his voice, and I knew he was as sad as I was. After brushing her a final time, something she wouldn't stand for in her last days, I placed her in a box with a favorite towel that had been marked with our family name. Her family name. Then we waited for <strong>FirstBorn</strong> to come home. She took the news gracefully, with quiet tears.<br />
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After dinner, the whole family gathered around the little plot in the woods that was meant to be a mushroom garden, but had never produced. With its woven branch fence, it was the perfect spot to lay her to rest. <strong>Hubby </strong>dug her grave, <strong>Firstborn</strong> placed her beloved wreath over her, <strong>Only Son</strong> said a few words, and the rest of us looked on remembering what a good cat she had been. But <strong>Bonus Baby</strong>'s tearful regret at never having the chance to get to really know her was heart wrenching. She'd had to keep her distance since <strong>Ashes </strong>hadn't been overly fond of little people. But it hadn't stopped <strong>Bonus Baby</strong> from loving her.<br />
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A week has passed since these events, and we're still adjusting to the meow-less mornings. As I write this I am still teary. <strong>FirstBorn</strong> has been working such long hours that I wonder if she's had time to process it. We know we won't get another kitty in this house, though she might someday. <br />
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<br />C.A. Morganhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508290473094312942noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7756598748586410241.post-61673325269949513692014-06-04T07:27:00.000-07:002014-06-04T07:27:04.732-07:00An "All Seriousness" AsideNormally I try to be witty in these posts. But, today I'm writing straight from the heart about a subject that weighs heavily on it, namely - what will become of my<strong> Critters</strong>?<br />
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<strong>Hubby</strong> and I have raised (are still raising) a houseful of talented, outgoing, caring, bright and enthusiastic young people. People compliment us all the time on our great kids, to which I reply, "Thanks! I like them too!"<br />
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WHAT A HORRIBLE THING TO SAY!!!!! Yeah, but real. And if you really admit it, you've felt the same way about yours occasionally too. It's okay. They feel that way about us parents more often than we'd like to think they do, and it doesn't change how much we love them, right?<br />
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Sometimes, I get so frustrated that I just want to throw my hands up, throw in the towel, THROW ANYTHING! It usually happens when they are acting like, well... kids, and not the mature and wonderful people everyone thinks they are. Funny how their childish actions make me want to act childish too. Like yesterday, when I finally did throw something and shook up the entire household. (The clatter from the handful of silverware I was getting out to set the dinner table with as they fell forcefully back into the drawer was extremely satisfying!) I didn't stay around to see the effect it had, but stormed out of the house in bare feet and headed down the driveway to cool off.<br />
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The <strong>Critter </strong>who added the last straw wasn't most to blame for my overload, but the one who was, was oblivious. So really, all my little tantrum did was set a bad example. And therein lies the rub. <strong>Hubby</strong> and I work hard to set a <em>good </em>example for the <strong>Critters</strong> to follow. For him it comes naturally, but I have to overcome a plenitude of natural inclinations to be the kind of person I hope they will become. When they display those same natural tendencies, I worry. I recognize negative behavior when I see it because I've been there, still am there, fighting it tooth and nail. I want them to be more like <strong>Hubby</strong>, and less like their <strong>Momster</strong>. Not that I don't like myself, mind you: Narcissism is one of those natural inclinations I was just mentioning. But it's harder to overcome bad habits than avoid developing them in the first place.<br />
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One of the <strong>Critters</strong> (I won't mention names, but <em>he</em> just graduated) started his first real job yesterday, and already he's moaning about it. After one day! I've seen this kid spend countless hours writing a paper or memorizing a script, skipping meals and working on stage till he could barely stand, holding doors for people, donating blood, serving on the altar at Mass ---- he's a good kid, and hardworking when he wants to be (though sometimes I wish he'd never been introduced to video gaming). I am immensely proud of his many accomplishments. But he has a poor me attitude about having to work hard this summer before college, and I just don't get it! His dad works two, sometimes three jobs. On top of my writing and everything else I do around here as mother of five, I went back to work when <strong>Firstborn</strong> started college to help pay the bills. She's working three jobs herself. None of us prefer to bust our butts like we do, but we do it because we need to. This <strong>Critter </strong>knew he would have to help pay for college, yet it was <strong>Hubby</strong> and I who tracked down job leads for him since he had "other priorities". It's not our fault he turned down the cushy camp councilor job since it would mean not seeing the girlfriend, or didn't keep pursuing the golf course grounds-keeping position, or show a little more enthusiasm for waiting tables. <br />
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Sometimes you just do what you gotta do.<br />
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I wish that I could just hand him the money for college, but then again, maybe I don't. Where's the lesson in that? Entitlement attitudes abound today, and wouldn't that just play into it? <br />
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There is a lack in my parenting skills that is becoming increasing evident: I hate to see my kids suffer. I rescue them time and time again, and then I resent it. This time I want to stand firm, make him tough it out and build character. But I also want him to just stop whining.<br />
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Now, before you go thinking that I'm just a lousy and/or boring hostess, let me chime in. I have hosted great parties before! Not the falling down drunk, going home with strangers kind, but good ol' family get-togethers filled with good food, fantastic conversation and lots of fun. Granted, I'm not known for my spontaneity, so when I entertain it's a well thought out, preplanned and stressed-over event that usually leaves me exhausted and in need of a glass of wine or two at a more casual gathering hosted by someone else. Because of this, I generally wait for a BIG EVENT to invite folks over.<br />
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But, back to last weekend.... I was supposed to host a Pampered Chef party. As a foodie, I just love the product line even though the only items I'd ever owned were gifts from someone else. Recently though, I'd attended a friend's PC party and splurged on my own early Mother's Day gift - a spiffy new ceramic omelet pan. That got me thinking about how sweet it would be to have a whole set of cookware that wasn't pieced together from grocery store incentive programs and rummage sales, or add worn Teflon to my family's diet. The only way I'd ever be able to do that was to earn free stuff. So, despite the fact that the whole premise of marketing parties makes me a little queasy for a variety of reasons, I thought I'd give it a go.<br />
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I think God's trying to tell me to stick to birthdays and graduations.....<br />
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Out of almost 60 invited guests (they tell you to over-invite - same logic airlines use with booking) only two good friends told me they were definitely coming. And since one of them was the hostess at the party I had just attended, and the other a guest, it was looking more like a pity-party. Now, I'm not begrudging anyone the extremely important other events already cluttering their weekend plans ---- I had several other things going on myself, including a daughter's dance recital that I was informed of only two days prior. And I'm not saying that anyone should have tried harder to squeeze my party in - no guilt trips coming from this direction! But I am saying that when I pick 'em, I really pick em! This was the second date in as many parties that just was a lousy fit for everyone.<br />
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So, I cancelled. And then I got to thinking.... the reason I enjoy having people over is that being with friends feeds the soul. So much of what we do everyday doesn't. And most of that has to do with stuff: earning $ to buy stuff, caring for stuff, losing or breaking stuff, wishing we had more stuff, having too much stuff.<br />
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One friend told me after I'd cancelled that she had actually been looking forward to my party, even though she hadn't committed, because she needed a little girl-time. She's the mother of four boys, so it wasn't about stuff for her, but nourishment. And so, as much as I had been hesitant to host "stuff" parties, I guess as long as my intent is focused on the people part of things, even they can feed the need.<br />
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Here's wishing you all a place at the table.C.A. Morganhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508290473094312942noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7756598748586410241.post-55629593661177315532014-03-07T08:40:00.000-08:002014-03-25T06:29:51.881-07:00Marketing Tips for Busy PeopleMy life right now pretty much revolves around the need to strategize the marketing of my book -<br />
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You see, no matter what pulls me into the outside world, what's happening here in my little family universe takes precedence, like it or not. Griper that I am, most of the time I do not. That doesn't mean I don't have my priorities straight, just that that I'm still a work in progress. Like you are too, I imagine. A busy home life is like a centrifuge, spinning uncontrollably, pressing your back against the wall even as it pulls you toward center. The moment you lift your head to look outside the home sphere, it gets slammed back into place. Illness does this, and car repair costs, and even the occasional favorite owl hat lost by your six year old.<br />
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Anyhow, despite everything I have to do around here, I have been spending an inordinate amount of time trying to figure out how to get my book "OUT THERE" where it will be noticed. So that it will sell. So that I can help pay for kids' clothing, dental work, college, etcetera. So that I can continue to write without feeling guilty about it... <br />
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Here's what I've learned about marketing so far:<br />
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1) You gotta do it everyday. Like eating or brushing your teeth. Sure, everyone skips once in a while, but if it's not a habit, bad things happen. Or nothing will happen, which is also bad.<br />
2) Use people. Not in a horrible way, or without their permission. But net<em><strong>WORKING</strong></em> is named that for a reason.<br />
3) Give it away. Seems counter intuitive to someone who is struggling to make ends meet, but there you have it.<br />
4) Write - <em><strong>DUH!</strong></em> Your second book is the best promotion for your first.<br />
5) Get technical. As in, learn about technology and how to use it. This one is a toughy for an older newbie like me, but I did e-publish shortly after releasing my paperback. Now if only I can master the web....<br />
6) Do your research, and get reviewed. I put these together because knowing the reviewer's style, tastes, and likelihood of giving a positive review matters.<br />
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There are a lot of other things I've learned in this process, but since I need to go back to learning more now, I'll leave you with one final tip -<br />
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7)Work harder than everyone else. Personally, I have a difficult time justifying time spent without documentable results, but I'm learning that increments of progress vary. Slow and steady really does win the race. Oh, how cliché!<br />
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<i>Yes, I'm recycling cartoons again, but you get it don't you? Buy my book (and get your friends to buy it!) and I'll have oh! so much more time to draw again! Available at your favorite bookseller.</i><br />
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didn’t put a lot of planning into it, but a casual gathering of friends to
snowshoe and ski seemed like just the way to kick February vacation off to a
good start. I should have taken heed when most people rsvp’d that they would
(regretfully?) be out of town, no doubt traveling to less snowy climes, doing
exotic tropical things. With our crew that has never been an option, not that
I’ve minded ---- much. Fun is what you make it, right?</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Party day
got off to a rocky start the night before, with me worrying half the night
about our “adult”<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> Critters</b> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>who were out and about – when does this stop?
– and crawling out of bed not only still exhausted, but with allergy nose,
sneezing and dripping like a sieve. Since <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">FirstBorn
</b>and <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Only Son</b> had opted to spend the
night at thier friend’s house, the bright spot of the morning was that the rest
of us could all fit in the car on the way to Mass. (Did I mention that <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Vantana</b> is in the shop getting a new
transmission and wheel bearings, leaving only the five-in-a-tight-squeeze passenger,
stick shift <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">SuZi</b>? But that’s another
story...) After Mass, we headed downstairs to the parish hall for a little
pre-party Sunday brunch. Being a social butterfly has its drawbacks; we were
some of the last down so we missed out on the bacon. Also, we had to eat with
plates in our laps, which reminds me – I still have to get that syrup out of
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I put a pot of homemade chili on the back burner to simmer, sampled the
guacamole, and did a little last minute tidy before folks started to arrive. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Backroad of Busted Mufflers</b> aside, the
families that actually made it had more issues with our steep, ice-crusted
driveway. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Dr. Denny </b>and <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">CindyComeLately </b>with their three <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Amigos</b> were surprisingly early, wearing
winning smiles and bearing a beautiful lasagna.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Big Johnny,</b> when he arrived,<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> </b>took a hard spill coming up the walk,
but bounced up with barely a grimace, his family following more cautiously in
his wake. Our missing <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Critters</b> eventually
showed up (I didn’t ask) and that’s when it started to get interesting. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="font-family: Calibri;">Accepting
that we weren’t going to abandon our guests for four hours (as forewarned) to
drive her back to college in time for her tech rehearsal, <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Firstborn</b> attempted (unsuccessfully) to rustle up a ride. When
nothing panned out with her friends, <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Big
Johnny </b>offered taxi service in lieu of our planned outdoor adventure. Maybe
he was being nice, and maybe he’d hit the ice harder than he let on, and wanted
an easier out.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Either way, boy, was he
ever wrong!</span></span></div>
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was time for the rest of us to head into the Great Outdoors - everyone except
for the teen-aged girls, who squirreled themselves away in <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Third Child</b>’s purple-passion den, doing girlie stuff. Sorting out
winter gear, skis, poles, and snowshoes, <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Hubby<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">,</i> Dr. D.</b> & <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">C.C. Lately</b>, and the remaining <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Critters
</b>divvied up trail maps and headed out. The day was sparkling, the breeze
light, and trails thoughtfully pre-tramped by <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Hubby</b> the day before.<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> Big Johnny’s
Missus</b> and<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> I</b> hung back with our
youngest, <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Little Miss</b> and <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Bonus Baby</b>, attempting to put on their
skis. Note: a persistently drippy proboscis and broken bindings do not go well
together. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">B.B</b>.’s boot ended up
covered in eeeew! and held in place with used twist ties. Halfway across the
yard she lost a ski. More bending over = more dripping. More ski’s coming off =
tears, more exasperating dripping, and finally a decision to go sledding
instead. Too late, I realized how icy our driveway (a.k.a. the sled run) really
was, and nearly broke my neck attempting to stay upright while holding back a
sled load of anxious six year olds. I parked the nose of the sled in the snow
bank with orders for them to stay put until I called up the all’s clear from
the bottom. When they came screaming – literally - down the driveway, my heart
nearly stopped. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">B.B</b>. rolled out as
the sled tipped and <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Little Miss</b> shot
past, crashing harmlessly into the bank. More tears from <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Bonus Baby</b>, but nothing more serious than a bruised elbow, thankfully.
<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Little Miss</b> wanted to go again. We
compromised with me offering to pull them back up the hill, but ended up
turning it into a game where they had to crawl up on their bellies to save us
all from an early grave. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Big Johnny’s
Missus</b> and<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> I </b>were more than
ready to chill out on the porch with a glass of Zinfandel when the little
ladies went inside to play.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>When we
eventually got up to go inside, another bout of sneezing caught me off
guard.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>You’ve no doubt heard women
complain about the effects of sneezing after childbirth: Multiply that by five.
Needless to say, I had to change. A little later, <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Bonus Baby</b> got a little too wrapped up in playing, and well, let’s
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trekkers straggled back in, I doled out hot cocoa and begged the teens to
include the pre-teens in their activities. More sneezing and more dripping nose.
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left him and <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Firstborn</b> stranded
along the interstate with a shredded tire, and little chance of her getting to
rehearsal on time or him making it back without a very expensive tow.
Possibilities were kicked around, and soon <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Hubby</b>
& <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Dr. D.</b> hopped into our<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> SuZi</b> and headed an hour out of their
way to pick up <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Big J</b>.’s spare – then
off to the rescue! In the meantime, a tow truck was called to haul the stranded
motorists to the nearest town, where they waited, cold and hungry. </span></span></div>
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home front, kids found stuff to do while the ladies commiserated, drank more wine,
and played Bananagrams on the floor in front of the wood stove. It was almost fun,
except this hostess felt run over by a truck – sneezy days really wipe me out,
even without the accidents and added stress, and my bed was looking mighty
appealing...... and really far away! </span></span></div>
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finally arrived,<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> Firstborn</b> had
gotten a college chum to come and pick her up. Just as I was getting dinner on
the table she called to say she’d made it safely back. Confession time: I was
still a little miffed, though once the decision was made for <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Big J</b>. to take her, the outcome was
irrelevant, and I knew I had no right. I told her I was glad she was safe, but
at that moment thirteen hungry people were waiting on me, so I didn’t take time
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after 9:30 (note the party times) to a noisy house and riled up kids, hungry
but in good humor. A little guy bonding time appeared to have done them good. An
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C.A. Morganhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508290473094312942noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7756598748586410241.post-40412193998698211922014-02-04T08:13:00.000-08:002014-02-04T08:13:25.505-08:00Howdy, Stranger!Well, it's been absolutely forever since I've written here! Not that I've forgotten you.... just ask my extended family * whose birthdays I never remember in time. That's what busyness does - it makes you take those you most appreciate for granted. :(<br />
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When I'm bored or overwhelmed or stumped for ideas, I too often turn to Facebook or various blogs, and before you know it, a perfectly good hour has passed by with nothing to show for it besides my own entertainment. Not that being entertained in and of itself is a bad thing, but I'm a doer, not a spectator. And if that doesn't jive with my couch potato image, bear in mind that I can barely sit and watch a movie anymore without falling asleep, but I can write or paint all day and be so engrossed that I forget to eat!<br />
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When I think of mankind as being made in God's image, our ability to create is what comes to mind. It's what I love most about being human. That goes for everything from writing a novel (shameless plug for <em><u>Emrysia Awakening</u></em>!) or drawing a caricature, to flipping an omelet or expertly applying makeup. It doesn't have to be something big, though it can be. It just has to be something that involves you in the creative process.<br />
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What brings me the <em>most</em> satisfaction is often what also provides the most frustration while in progress, like learning to make an awesome pizza. Like getting my book published. Like raising the <strong>Critters</strong>.<br />
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My pizza is now highly anticipated once-a-week fare on movie night (which I'll sleep thru). Seeing my work on store shelves is great, though so far I've gotten more reviews on the pizza. But watching my offspring become salt and light for the world? Now that's amazing feedback!<br />
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So, forgive me for not making more time here. It's not that I don't enjoy it - I really, really do! I just have other things to create.<br />
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Sorry, but I wish I had time to write more here. Instead I'm going to refer you to my other blog in hopes that you will go there and catch up.<br />
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But, in the words of way too many cheesy good guys and villains... <em>I'll be back!</em><br />
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We commiserated with each other in ways that only someone who's walked a mile in your muck boots can. Our oldest children are both in college, and were decidedly easiest of the lot. They were (still are) people pleasers, who at least on the surface towed the line. My <strong>Firstborn</strong>'s biggest infraction was/is a consistently messy room (<strong><em>The Sty</em></strong>) - hers, a toss-up between being wishy-washy and addicted to video games.<br />
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Our current high school seniors are both honor students and generally really good people. We have the sweetest picture of them as King and Queen Charming (Cinderella's beau's parents) taken in third grade or so. But while <strong>Only Son</strong> has continued to act and plans to pursue that as a career, she wants to study the sciences. Curfews are an issue for both, though not collectively. It's hard to be tough on them when they're such good kids otherwise, but teaching kids to respect authority these days is a challenge. Especially since so few in authority today (parents excluded) deserve respect. <br />
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We've had it easier than lots of struggling parents, and gladly acknowledge that our kids are a blessing. But there are still days that wear you down so much you wonder what you were ever thinking when you had kids. Days when you're surprised you're not bald yet from pulling your hair out. When, if you have to fight one more battle over family rules, delegate one more contested chore, trip over one more toy or haphazardly plopped backpack, you know you'll feel like throwing in the towel --- AND I'M NOT TALKING <em>MORE</em> LAUNDRY!<br />
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<em>(Remember <strong>Critters</strong>, if you read this, that this blog is Mom Therapy. All nagging accomplished here is that much less you'll have to listen to.....)</em>C.A. Morganhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508290473094312942noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7756598748586410241.post-16534330829396009032013-10-29T06:39:00.000-07:002013-10-29T06:42:09.968-07:00Almost There!<div style="text-align: left;">
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We are so close to being done! After a<em> VERY</em> stressful week of laboring to birth this novel, I am about as anxious to hold it in my hands as any of my other children. Hopefully, next week!<br />
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Thanks to everyone for being so patient and supportive. It's been a long ten years since I started this process. Writing the series was the easy part. Publishing it has been a bear. And though I would have loved to go through a "big house", I've learned a lot about self publishing that I would have never otherwise known.<br />
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This is a soft cover edition. I'll let you know as soon as I have pricing, but for those of you who would buy it regardless of cost, you can pre-order by commenting on this post. And remember (for what it's worth), you can get an autographed copy mailed right to your door (postage and handling not included) by purchasing direct.C.A. Morganhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508290473094312942noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7756598748586410241.post-15063446964970876482013-10-23T11:11:00.001-07:002013-10-23T11:11:46.714-07:00Why Do We Do It<br />
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Growing up, I couldn't stand it when I questioned parental motives only to be told "because I said so!" The unjustness of it all! So when I became a parent, I vowed to always help my <strong>Critters</strong> understand the whys and what-fors behind my logic, assuming that as young, but rational human beings they would value being treated as such. <br />
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They just don't get it. No matter how much effort is expended attempting to enlighten them, they generally refuse to acknowledge the wisdom of age and experience. Maybe it's because their brains aren't done being wired yet. A smarter mom would take St. Francis' admonition to "seek not so much to be understood as to understand" at face value, but determined<strong> Momster</strong> that I am, I've gotta give it one more shot. So speaking for <strong>Husband</strong> as well (whether he wants me to or not) here goes....<br />
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NAG - Because you don't do it right away/ the first time we tell you/ thoroughly/ without being told.<br />
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In general, <strong><em>EVERYTHING</em></strong> we do as parents is because we love you and want what is best for you. Sometimes that means being the bad guy, the fall guy, the guy behind the wheel eight hours out of twenty-four, or telling you yet again to eat healthy food, not junk, though we know you won't listen. It means putting up with you when we'd rather put you out, and saying no even though you hate us for it because it's what you need, not what you want. And despite the fact that you don't get it, one day you will.<br />
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I've never really understood that old saying " the proof is in the pudding". I know you have to "proof" yeast, so I could get an adage like "the proof is in the cinnamon buns", or "the proof is in the kronuts", though even that is still pretty obscure. Maybe they (those mysterious coiners of idioms) mean English pudding, as in, any ol' dessert.<br />
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So.... it's actually "the proof of the pudding is in the eating,", as in, you can only tell how good a thing is by sampling the finished product. Well, I guess I wasn't too far off. The thing is, I finally have the hard copy of my book in my hands. Not the FINISHED copy, mind you. This is a <em>write-all-over-me-with-blue-pen-and-make-corrections</em> copy. In other words, a proof.<br />
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And is it ever proving necessary! Though I'm resisting the urge to edit my own writing yet again (for the most part), it's loaded with errors that occurred during formatting - argh!!!!!!! And I'm making a pretty blue-pudding mess of it.<br />
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Sometimes I wonder if I'll ever really hold the finished, truly published version in my hands --- if I'll have the stamina to see this marathon thru to the finish. A watched pot might never boil, but dreams only take wing when you stop chewing the fat, poop or get off the pot, and put some elbow grease into it! Yes, I know why the caged bird sings: SHE WANTS SOME PUDDING! for crying out loud!<br />
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<em>(Note: My profuse apologies to all people of sensitivity including, but not exclusively, my <strong>Critters</strong>, boss, pastor, little old lady next door and all my regular readers. This is not my usual G- rated post. If children are reading over your shoulder, you might want to ask them to leave the room. No, I mean it. Seriously.)</em><br />
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Had enough? Me too.<br />
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<em>I. Am. Sorry. So terribly, terribly sorry.</em><br />
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No, I did not suddenly develop Tourrettes, though sometimes it seems the rest of the world has. What is this need consuming ordinary folks to litter speech and foul the air and cyberspace with constant profanity? I just don't get it.<br />
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<em><strong>News Flash:</strong></em> <em><strong>You're cool enough already!</strong></em> Do you have to keep trying to prove it (to yourself maybe?) by using "adult" language? Grow up and grow your vocabulary instead!<br />
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Time to start thinking about someone other than yourself. <br />
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For those of you convinced I'm just old fashioned and prudish, well, you might be right, though that's something I've attempted to cultivate rather than outgrow. But do you at least get my point? If not, then read this again, this time sans profanity:<br />
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<span style="background-color: red; color: white;">Why do you love "<em>I Love _______ Science</em>"? <span style="color: black;"><span style="background-color: orange;"> </span><span style="background-color: orange;">Is it</span></span></span><span style="background-color: orange; color: black;"><span style="color: black;"> </span>really any better than any other science website?</span><span style="background-color: yellow;"> </span><span style="background-color: yellow; color: black;">Who cares if there is foul language in the title? <span style="background-color: lime;">Well, I do,</span></span><span style="background-color: lime;"> </span><span style="background-color: lime;">that's who! Because, I really love science, yeah! -</span><span style="background-color: cyan;"> </span><span style="color: blue;"><span style="background-color: cyan;">just for what it is. Do I want to be offended by foul languag</span><span style="background-color: cyan;">e </span></span><span style="color: black;"><span style="background-color: magenta;">every time I go on Facebook or visit a website?! No! <span style="background-color: #b4a7d6;"> So </span><span style="background-color: #b4a7d6;">please.........</span></span><span style="background-color: #b4a7d6;"> </span><span style="background-color: #b4a7d6;"><span style="background-color: #b4a7d6;">just</span> stop.</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: red; color: #cc0000;"></span><br />C.A. Morganhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508290473094312942noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7756598748586410241.post-61867078808916539522013-06-30T17:57:00.001-07:002013-06-30T17:57:35.657-07:00Stir Crazy<strong><em>The New England Rain Forest...</em></strong> Betcha didn't even know there was one.<br />
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... everything else - yes. But really, why bother ranting about something there's no hope of influencing. Unlike the <strong>Critters</strong>, the weather has absolutely, positively no chance at all of ever being swayed by my critical protestations. <br />
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After being cooped inside for days on end, everyone's patience is starting to wear thin - especially mine, since it gets tried and stretched the most already. While the incessant rain provides the perfect excuse for ditching outdoor chores - <em>except for <strong>Husband</strong> who, though he hates working wet, spent last weekend stringing pig-fence in a downpour</em> - I fail to see why it makes loading the dishwasher or cleaning the basement playroom impossible!<br />
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One thing that hasn't suffered from monsoon-itis is <strong>Third Child</strong>'s<strong> </strong>culinary creativity. The more it pours, the more lemon poppy seed muffins, chocolate chip cookies and microwave brownie-in-a-mugs remnants I find when I get home from work. If only I could channel her interest into meal preparation instead of just baking! <br />
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I'd like to let things simmer quietly, season with more prayer and less worry, to avoid boiling over. But while I'm a pretty good cook, I'm lousy at following simple recipes. Just ask <strong>Hubby</strong> and the <strong>Critters -</strong> I have to doctor everything. And an overactive imagination, while great for a writer, is often the worst ingredient on a mother's pantry shelf.<br />
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The two oldest <strong>Critters</strong> were 45 minutes late the other night, and I had them lying bloody in a ditch, while I lay sleepless, caught in a continual loop of mental agitation. <strong>Third Child</strong> complained of sleeping poorly and I envisioned death by sleep apnea. Likewise <strong>Bonus Baby</strong> --- she often feels breathless when crying, and I see asthma attacks plaguing both of our futures. And don't get me started on <strong>Sweetie Petite-y</strong>! If one more thing goes wrong with that child I'm really gonna crack!</div>
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Disclaimer: The incoherent ramblings documented here are not, and never shall be, documented proof of this <strong>Momster</strong>'s instability. They are, indeed, fictitious ramblings, and not the product of a sleep deprived and over worked nature, and therefore not admissable as evidence of the temporary insanity known as parenthood....or are they?????</div>
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Remember that scene in <em>Steel Magnolias</em> just after the funeral when all the ladies are crying, and Olivia Dukakis cracks a joke? I was blubbering so hard that I almost missed it, and then it took me so completely off guard I practically snorted! I know I sprayed the person in front of me, but it was kind of a chain reaction. There were still tears steaming down my face after that, but they were tears of relief.<br />
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Sometimes we wanna wallow in self pity and enjoy our pain for a while. After all, its a valid - though not very productive - response. When I feel like a little wallow myself, I <em>try</em> (operative word) to set a time limit, say... five minutes allotted for a pity party, then back to business. There's too much on our plates to indulge in much more.<br />
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<strong>Sweetie Petite-y</strong>, who despite her tender years is a seasoned veteran<strong>,</strong> has recently acquired more first hand experience. She learned that humans really cannot fly, that gravity is more than a mental state, and that sometimes you should listen to your <strong>Momster</strong> over your siblings. Oh, and that the ground is pretty darn hard.......... A couple of broken metatarsals in a compliant cast later, the novelty of having the first broken bone among siblings has worn off. Pain, excruciating and bravely met at first, is annoyingly persistent, and worse yet, limiting. Her eagerly anticipated, end-of-the-year, ropes course field trip now looms like dark cloud on the horizon.<br />
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The thought of her missing it is enough to make my eyes brim, but I witnessed in amazement the other day while she allowed herself only a few self-conscious tears, and then apologizing, put on her Pollyanna face and looked for the brighter side of things. No praying for it to rain on her classmates for her. Though she is opting not to go (and make fun of them as their butts zoom awkwardly by overhead, like her oldest sister would), she is determined to work hard and heal enough to wear both shoes by the time eighth grade graduation rolls around.<br />
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Well, it was one for the bucket list! Hard to believe that my return to the stage has run its course.......at least... this show has.<br />
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What fun! As terrifying as auditioning was, performing in Jesus Christ Superstar was a total blast - not just a blast from the past. I wasn't nervous at all, which took me by surprise. And with each performance the gel thickened until we really were apostles, priests, tormentors, soldiers, procuators, lepers, buyers & sellers (prostitutes?) and soul girls. Oh, and savior/superstars!*<br />
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I think my favorite part was flitting around backstage between scenes. It was hard to believe I was there, the firefly light of the microphone glowing on my back, my costume (pieced together with contributions from my <strong>She-Critters</strong> closets) swaying as we danced to oh-so-familiar music, huddling around the mike with the "rabble" to affect an angry mob. I loved rushing to change from apostle to leper to apostle again, and finally to soul girl (and apostle again for curtain call). They say the magic of theater occurs onstage and in the audience, but it's palpable backstage as well in the dim footlights and glow-tape, the props table and dressing rooms - and the wings! Always in the wings!<br />
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Quite a few cast members got teary with post production letdown, but I'm still pumped! I actually did this brave, wonderful thing - an experience that greatly enriched my already full-of-many-blessings life. I stepped outside of my comfort zone, tested my abilities, made new friends, embraced my inner thespian, and <em>lived</em> in a fun and creative way. No whining here, just <strong><em>really</em></strong> good wine! (The bread was pretty awesome too --- I scored the recipe from the props mistress!)<br />
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And... the party doesn't have to end. For the time being I'm back to chauffeuring <strong>Critters</strong> to & from their play practices. But, watch out! <strong>Actress Momster</strong> has been set loose!<br />
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<em>*Almost forgot to mention the amazing band and tech crew! Thank you one and all! </em>C.A. Morganhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508290473094312942noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7756598748586410241.post-78550274784379694382013-05-09T13:49:00.000-07:002013-05-09T13:49:59.328-07:00Another Naked Post<em><strong><span style="font-size: x-large;">Yikes!</span></strong></em><br />
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Whew!- so glad that wasn't what you thought it was! Actually, just bare words here again. Wish I had more to report (and more time to report it), but I'm still in waiting mode:<br />
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Waiting for the electronic proof of my novel.<br />
Waiting for the opening night of Jesus Christ Superstar (ohmygosh!-it's tomorrow!).<br />
Waiting to go back to work after more than a month-long shut down.<br />
Waiting for spring....scratch that. We skipped spring this year and went straight into summer.<br />
Waiting for the end of the school year. One <strong>Critter</strong> down, four to go.<br />
Waiting for the soft pool to fill up.<br />
Waiting for my shittake mushrooms to appear (I gave up on the morels).<br />
Waiting for the house to clean itself--- Whoa! Not possible you say? Au contraire! If the right hints are dropped just prior to Mother's Day, you never know......<br />
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Anyhow, one thing I'm no longer waiting for is life to pass me by. Some things are worth waiting for, but some you gotta go out and grab by the horns. <br />
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C.A. Morganhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508290473094312942noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7756598748586410241.post-74155196010303686202013-04-19T12:10:00.001-07:002013-04-19T12:10:30.153-07:00Update From the M.I.A./An Overloaded PostYep, it's been a while since I posted. After February's month long blogging spree it was a bit traumatic to give this up in favor of accomplishing some other goals ---- or at least, getting started on them. Here's the scoop...<br />
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Rehearsals are coming along for <em>Jesus Christ Superstar</em>. Here's me as one of the Apostles:<br />
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<strong>Third Child</strong> tagged along recently and was impressed by the play and, amazingly, her 'ol <strong>Momster</strong>'s performance. During one character development exercise, I realized I can still break out the waterworks when necessary. Guess tears don't fall far from the genetic material - <strong>FirstBorn</strong> is rocking her college performance of the weeping mother of the convict in <em>Dead Man Walking</em>.<br />
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<strong>Sweetie-Petite-y</strong> has experienced her share of accolades during this month-plus of silence. She managed to win not one, but two science fairs with her research on Tetrachromacy! This should give you some idea what that's about....<br />
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"<strong>Y</strong>" was cool, loved to sing, and was very tolerant of the amount of time he had to spend traveling down the <strong>BBM</strong> (that's<strong> Backroad of Busted Mufflers</strong> for the uninitiated) despite feeling continually carsick.</div>
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<br />Oh, and going back to<strong> FirstBorn,</strong> I should mention that she not only made the Dean's List, but got not one, but <em><strong>two</strong></em> poems published. She really is multi-faceted...</div>
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As for my own publishing goals, I finished a final edit and delivered my manuscript to the printer a couple of weeks ago. Yeah, yeah, yeah..... so I didn't make my self-imposed deadline to publish by my birthday! At least I got it there within said time frame. Just waiting to see a proof now before adding in the support materials. And then, I will no longer be just another struggling writer: I WILL BE AN AUTHOR! Before you know it, I'll have a stack of books to my name --- and hopefully not just several copies of this one that I can't unload! </div>
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C.A. Morganhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508290473094312942noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7756598748586410241.post-21361852490920607322013-02-28T08:20:00.000-08:002013-02-28T09:28:05.599-08:00Now, Go Cat - Go!Well, this is it. Once I actually think of something to go with this title, finish typing and click on publish, I will have posted every day this month. Yay me!<br />
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I met my goal, that's what! It may seem a small accomplishment to you, but so is tying your shoes. Try running a marathon without that first step.<br />
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<strong>Hubby</strong> has been asking periodically when I plan on self-publishing my novels. (I have two thirds of a young adult trilogy languishing on my desk.) After a long, drawn out, disappointing attempt at finding a publisher in this recession-ridden, celebrity-crazed market I have decided that is (probably) my best option. So what if fate has not smiled kindly upon my writing career thus far? It is high time I stop waiting around for fate and just get the job done.<br />
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It's taken a while for me to wrap my head around the idea of going it alone. Self-promotion isn't something I excel at despite the narcissistic nature evident in these ramblings. Talent and self-sufficiency aside, I know my limitations....<br />
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This month besides being a fun challenge was a first step. There's enough material to browse thru here to keep newcomers busy even though I won't be posting as often. And hopefully, now this blog has enough of a presence to go it alone for a while, just like me.<br />
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Here's my new challenge: To publish<br />
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I'm not giving up my day job (or my play, or this blog forever, or most importantly my vocation as wife and mother) so things might get a bit <em>wild<strong> </strong></em>around here for a while. But as a famous philosopher once said "Have no fear of this mess!"<br />
<br />C.A. Morganhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508290473094312942noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7756598748586410241.post-54669015104639068872013-02-27T12:26:00.002-08:002013-02-27T12:26:49.150-08:00Three To Get ReadyAwwww... come one! You knew it was coming, didn'tcha?<br />
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Actually, comings <em>and</em> goings are very appropriate subjects for a blog about surviving large families. Or more specifically, transitions.<br />
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Why is it transitions are so hard? Let me answer that with another question. If the shortest distance between two points is a straight line, why do we constantly head off on tangents, especially when timing is crucial? Does this happen in your house too? You know you have to get out the door at a certain time to make it to point B, but despite having roused everyone early so as to assure more than adequate time to prepare, one or several someones hold up the show. Maybe it's a last minute item that needs retrieving, personal grooming to be completed, or more often than not, just plain ol' attitude.<br />
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Living this far out, we try to pack as many errands and appointments into every trip to town as we can. Sometimes this means a lot of waiting around. And even though I might not need to be at the chiropractor till 2:00, we may have to leave the house at 11:00 to drop this one here, that one there, and pick up something for so-and-so in between. It can get pretty complicated, and everyone looks to <strong>Momster</strong> to keep it all straight. Most of the time I do, but usually not too gracefully.<br />
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While we've struggled with transitions over the years, we've never really come up with a solid strategy for managing them well. Hopefully, that is about to change. I'm about to implement a new family policy. It may be a little challenging at first (especially for me!) but in the long run it just might be brilliant. It's called <strong><em>Three To Get Ready</em></strong>. Here's how it works:<br />
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Every time we approach a transition, whether from one activity to another or switching time zones, if EACH family member would only follow these three simple steps, improved flow will happen.<br />
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2) Do everything possible to not hinder them.<br />
3) When you can, do everything possible to help them.<br />
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Pretty simple. Some might call it mindfulness, respect, and charity. I like to call it <em>real </em>love rather than lip service.<br />
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And since getting ready is what this whole life is about, isn't it about time we take transitions seriously?<br />
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C.A. Morganhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15508290473094312942noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7756598748586410241.post-57305365592289064862013-02-26T14:50:00.004-08:002013-02-26T14:50:49.153-08:00Two For The ShowActually, more like Two for Tuesday, as in two topics for the price of one.<br />
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Today is just an ordinary day, kinda gray and quiet - relatively speaking. I attended a funeral this morning while the <strong>Critters</strong> (who are enjoying February break) lounged around at home and burned up our allotted internet usage for the day. Not that I blame them. We live in a remote part of the world (northern New England) where we still don't have access to high speed internet without a satellite dish --- meaning our ability to watch You Tube videos and look up pictures of cute little kittens is severely limited. Can you imagine anything more tragic? <br />
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Some mornings as I sip coffee and gaze out upon our scenic mountain vista, I contemplate all of the horrors I might inflict upon my oh-so-deprived offspring, such as actually making them spend time in the fresh air of the great outdoors. Such a cruel <strong>Momster</strong>, I know! Today was not one of those days. Today rather than forcing the issue, I <em>guilted</em> them into it by taking advantage of my poor deceased friend. <br />
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"I bet Mrs. M. would like to be outside right now. I bet if she could do it all again, she'd spend a lot more time outdoors."<br />
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Actually, I don't know anything of the sort. She wasn't exactly the athletic type.<br />
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But maybe it was attending her funeral this morning that made me think about what I would miss most if I could no longer do it. Just walking in the crisp, fresh air while enjoying the sights and sounds of God's creation would rank right up there. So would spending time playing with my <strong>Critters</strong>. I get so busy with other, less important "stuff" that I sometimes forget what incredible gifts each of them are. And sometimes not having "stuff" (such as unlimited access to the internet) is a blessing in disguise. So excuse me for a moment (or hopefully an hour or two) while I go spend some quality time with the ones I love.<br />
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A few posts back I taunted you by withholding important information. (No, I'm <em>still</em> not going to tell you what that mystery non-post was about!) Though I shared my audition experience, I left you hanging about what role I got cast in for <strong>Jesus Christ Superstar</strong>.<br />
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Pretty cool, huh? Two roles for the price (and believe me, I paid in nerves!) of one audition. Last night I joined the rest of the cast in the first read/sing through. It felt really good to be up on stage again, especially since the hardest part was over. Looking forward to finding out if I still have what it takes... but since they already cast me, guess they'll have to take whatever I've got! So starts a new chapter....<br />
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